I’d rather get something like this instead of seeing it die off slowly and then not getting a straight answer or getting blindsided. Just rip the bandaid off—be honest about what’s going on. If you can’t learn to handle these situations and handle your emotions in a reasonable manner, then maybe you shouldn’t be dating yet…
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One girl dumped me after a few dates, nothing special, and she was super apologetic. She said she’d understand if I called her a fucking bitch and blocked her. I was so offended by that comment. I’m not one of those insecure guys who flips out when they get rejected. I can handle being dumped! I can’t believe she thought so lowly of me! Fucking bitch!
Self fulfilling prophecy?
Y’know, I’m fine with it because it is at least professional. Better than getting ghosted or them being rude about it.
The last thing I’m looking for in a relationship is professionalism.
You’re not looking for someone who has good communication skills?
Well this person is no longer in that relationship so that works out.
Reminds me of this Little Joel video from a couple years ago
Trying to prevent you from getting threatening and nasty due to the threat to your “masculinity”.
It’s hurtful that they think I’d even be threatening and nasty. That they just immediately assume I’m some kind of monster. It makes me feel like I have no value.
at least they sent a message, good on her.
Is it really all that surprising that when
- Dating, especially with apps, has become for so many such a soul-crushing impersonal numbers game
- Enough people (but mostly fragile men) become menacing upon being rejected
- Enough people keep complaining about how bad it feels to get ghosted
someone would end up sending this?
Jesus Christ, try and get into other people’s shoes from time to time.
I’d love to.
But I’m EU39/UK6 so chances are I’ll trip and fall when I’m in other people’s shoes.
Honestly yeah, this is better than ghosting so good on her
I think this person broke up with ChatGPT
Eh, the AI will get over it.
There are scattered reports of women using LLM bots in the dating process.
Indeed
Jaffa kree!
Hopefully amusing aside: When I first got into SG-1 I was taking French classes in high school, so in my head I always spelled in “Jaffa, Cris!”
So, ghosting is bad and evil. At least tell the man you aren’t interested! Men are suffering due to ghosting! But also, don’t put him down when rejecting him. Men have to suffer so much rejection, so their ego is easily hurt. Let him down gently!!
Oh, you did? Well let me mock you for being TOO nice and diplomatic about it 😂.
Damn I’m so happy I’m not dating anymore. Feels like no way to do it right.
There isn’t a way to do it right. Dating doesn’t work. People are too garbage for it.
Fair enough statement about some of the comments here, but at least the original poster in the screenshot is taking it in good stride like you’re supposed to with a polite rejection.
my experience is that the language is far more overtly psycho than this.
Merger rejected.
Men: crash out when they get ghosted
Also men:
Looks like the guy is in good humor about it, at least.
Didn’t see the emoji. Glad he’s not being salty
When two people are both trying to give bad news nicely they end up sounding similar.
Find an HR person to begin with. Sign off that you watched the videos and stuff like this won’t happen.
Be sure to watch the videos.
And you have to score 80% or better on the quizzes!
