• Duamerthrax@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    Does this happen? I think I’ve only experienced something close to this in high school, but never as an adult. Normally, people around me are either supportive or indifferent about someone learning new skills.

    • masterspace@lemmy.ca
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      1 year ago

      People hate on stuff all the time. How many people do you know who have made a derisive joke about people who hang truck nuts or something similar?

      Yucking others’ yum is an incredibly common occurrence.

    • Obi@sopuli.xyz
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      1 year ago

      Sure, people are gonna be supportive, but there’s definitely a peer pressure along the lines of “but how is it gonna make you rich or famous” in way too many fields.

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      1 year ago

      when does it not happen? as long as you don’t enjoy the same thing as other people, they will judge you

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      I think a lot of people use this as a way to start a conversation about what the person is doing and don’t think to ask it in a less confrontational way. Some people can’t handle seeing someone doing something that they thought they can’t or shouldn’t do. Most people don’t care or see another person doing what they please and respect that.

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      1 year ago

      Being yourself around everyone is easier said than done, but the more you can do it, the happier you will be. Getting older naturally makes it easier for most people. That’s part of the reason older people are happier.

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      Sometimes it’s good to care. If someone is saying you’re acts are immoral irresponsible or genuinely with your interests in mind you should listen and make a decision. If its someone saying you’re being odd or being weird they’re projecting their own self consciousness to stand out from the crowd.

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        People can and will argue that whatever you’re doing they don’t like or inconveniences them is immoral to manipulate you into not doing it.

        They’ll even twist morality around to mean that you can’t act with confidence or do anything different from what they want.

        So no one should take morality arguments seriously either

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    1 year ago

    Absolutely. I hate having to justify everything I do. Sometimes I just want to do something for the fun of it.