• Fixbeat@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      Being yourself around everyone is easier said than done, but the more you can do it, the happier you will be. Getting older naturally makes it easier for most people. That’s part of the reason older people are happier.

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      Sometimes it’s good to care. If someone is saying you’re acts are immoral irresponsible or genuinely with your interests in mind you should listen and make a decision. If its someone saying you’re being odd or being weird they’re projecting their own self consciousness to stand out from the crowd.

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        People can and will argue that whatever you’re doing they don’t like or inconveniences them is immoral to manipulate you into not doing it.

        They’ll even twist morality around to mean that you can’t act with confidence or do anything different from what they want.

        So no one should take morality arguments seriously either