• remotelove@lemmy.ca
    281·
    1 month ago

    Without going into much detail about my experiences, it turns out this scenario stemmed from them being bipolar. Anecdotally, when they got diagnosed and treated, this behavior stopped and they were able to express frustration without going full manic. (I don’t fully understand bipolar’isms that well myself, btw.)

    It’s OK for someone to be frustrated. It’s OK for someone to get mad at you on occasion. It is not OK to be yelled at for hours over something absolutely trivial.

    Don’t jump to any conclusions if you are in a similar situation. The person may actually be abusive!

    • Nanook@lemmy.zip
      29·
      1 month ago

      For me it was my ex. Gaslit the shit out of everyone. When I tried talking about it with friends the ol’ “that doesn’t sound like her”. Felt so alone. Escaped her abuse eventually. Hope you’re safe 🙏

      • Øπ3ŕ@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        2·
        1 month ago

        Hey, can I get a fist bump for a hat trick? 😅🥲😅

        On a brighter note, through hard work in therapy, I’ve recently come to realize that all but one of my past relationships have been with partners resembling my mother in behavior/abuse. All the while, I’ve been keen to avoid the same from dad-like sources, but blind to raptor hiding in the shadows. 🤦🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️

  • RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz
    6·
    1 month ago

    Can’t let the misbehaving little shit hear what’s what in public, it wouldn’t be a great look

    • wjrii@lemmy.world
      20·
      1 month ago

      That was a vision Rey had of herself if she went to the Dark Side of the Force. It made for a cool moment… in the trailer.

      Alternatively, they look healthy, so maybe it’s just British dental care not fixating on useless aesthetics? Did you ever consider that maybe they’re just Daisy Ridley‘s real teeth? Hmmmmm?