I just don’t feel feminine, аlthough I have long hair, I use makeup and I can’t be called tomboy, but I think calling me a woman sounds ridiculous, I’m not sure why, has anyone dealt with this?

  • Mrs_deWinter@feddit.orgEnglish
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    17 hours ago

    Or:

    • a gender-non-conforming woman
    • an enby
    • someone who’s gender fluid
    • some flavor of neurodivergence, BPD, or any other issue associated with an ambivalent sense of self, overestimating how much one should feel like “x” in order to “deserve to be called x”
    • a person in the process of discovering their own gender identity

    So let’s not jump to conclusion. There are many options and being a trans man is just one of them - and one we should never hastily impose on anyone.

    • black_flag@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      4 hours ago

      Pretty sure the second half of what I said covers that and again my advice is to ask a professional who is supportive of and experienced in helping people deal with these sorts of thoughts