• HubertManne@piefed.social
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    2 days ago

    the only good thing about wearing a tie was the glorious fealing of pulling it down as you walked out the door at the end of the work day and unbuttoning that top collar button or two.

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      so THAT’s the equivalent of me taking off my bra at the end of the day! Someone was asking this on Lemmy earlier.

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        To me oftentimes is the belt on formal days I do tie it a bit tighter than normal and it bites into my dad bod.

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        lol. as I was writing the response I kinda wondered if women did that walking out the door. Was just asking my wife and she mentioned liking having the ones that open in front so she could free them up a bit when she got in the car. I have not had to wear ties in a long time and it has been awhile since she has worn real ones as she went jog to camesals now.

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              I realize now my comment could have come off as judgy. It wasn’t; just meant to be informative! I wouldn’t even call that an often-used word, so I thought it reasonable that you’d just never seen it written before!

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                20 hours ago

                It actually helped me understand what the other poster was talking about, so yeah, informative.

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          I usually wait until I get home, but I have undone it in the car before. And the bras that fasten in the front are superior in every way.

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      At weddings, I’ll have it nice and orderly for the ceremony, then loosen it up a bit and undo that first button for the reception. Really letting loose, lol