DKIM, DMARC, SPF, rDNS/PTR, EHLO… all correct and verified in the email “original source,” BY GOOGLE. Still goes to SPAM folder because **** you, apparently. I hate Google.

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    Tbh, out of all services I’ve seen people self-host, email is the most common one I’ve seen people describe as a bad idea™️.

    I just chose a paid mail service (mailbox) and called it a day.

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      9 days ago

      Same. It’s great for a technical challenge. Don’t do it for your primary email unless you’re ok losing emails and having them rejected a lot.

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      I’ve been hosting my e-mail for over 2 decades now, e-mail goes everywhere but gmail (despite working with them for years). They are doing it exactly so people stop doing it.

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      I use a free outbound smtp relay that lets me do like 5k emails on the free tier. I use it primarily for alerts and Immich updates / new user links. But I don’t do inbound so don’t have to expose any ports. Only time I did was to do validation with the relay so just a few minutes during setup.

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      I do not understand all the people who are too afraid to try email hosting on their own that are out here discouraging people cause they want to sound right.

      Email is hard cause people don’t host it enough and the few corps ignore the minority problems.

      If more people shift back to hosting email the balance will tip again.

      It is fine if you don’t want to host email but telling people not too without even trying yourself is anti-selfhost IMHO.