• LouNeko@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    You are not doing bad things by approaching.

    I thing you and I have vastly different experiences with rejection.

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      4 days ago

      Yeah some women will be kind and say something like “Sorry, I’m not interested, but thank you for asking!” But they’re certainly the exception rather than the rule.

      More often it’ll be like “Ew, I can’t believe you would even ask that! What’s wrong with you?!?” And then she’ll go tell her friends about you and suddenly you end up on an app like tea where the rumor-mill’s game-of-telephone effect morphs it into increasingly grotesque distortions of what actually transpired.