• Vilian@lemmy.ca
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    11 months ago

    you missed their flirting because you didn’t liked them enough, or they didin’t like you enough to say to you, or flirt until you take the hint

    source: my girlfriend has social anxiety and is shy asf, but she really showed it, and i’m a dumbass

    • Custoslibera@lemmy.worldOP
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      11 months ago

      Oh I figured they were flirting only that this realisation occurred three months after the fact.

      I would have very much wanted to date them.

    • MrsEaves@kbin.social
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      11 months ago

      Lady with social anxiety here to confirm. Flirting is useless. Every time I’ve just given up and asked the dude to date after being extremely forward for a while and they’re always shocked 🤷🏼‍♀️ Once we get past that, it’s great.

    • rotopenguin@infosec.pub
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      11 months ago

      You missed their flirting because a good portion of your highschool class discovered that the absolute funniest gag in the world is to “flirt” with you.

    • DefederateLemmyMl@feddit.nl
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      11 months ago

      you missed their flirting because you didn’t liked them enough

      More likely that you missed it because you didn’t like yourself enough to believe that they were sending out clear hints.