So you can’t have a good character or story unless it’s centered around whether the character is a man or a woman?

Where on Earth did you get that from my comment?

You’re gonna lose your mind when you hear about aliens, robots and other non sexed characters.

….which often is attached to specific unique narrative concepts for those types of characters, since they too share a unique world view that is helpful or even necessary to set the background and future specific storyline.