• agitatedpotato@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Im someone for whom C is a necessity like the person you’re responding too and I think you’re 100% right.

    It may not be a nessesarily pathological insecurity, but it absolutely is an insecurity.

    If I felt more secure I’d probably be able to deal with it. I don’t think that means im a necessarily insecure person, or am someone for whom insecurity is a clinical problem, but at least comparatively that makes it an insecurity.

    You can get depressed and not have depression, you can get insecure and not be an insecure person, heck you can even maintain a healthy amount of anxiety. These are essentially just human traits and there’s no shame in admitting that I have a trait that’s at least a little rooted in insecurity so long as it doesn’t negatively impact my life.