• ApeNo1@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    Do they? I thought “I’m sorry” was specifically about sharing how you are feeling vs “I apologise” which is an acknowledgment of your action(s). They often correlate but not always a given.

    Just my 20c…

    Edit: I can’t spell actions apparently.

    Bonus DVD directors cut edit:

    So reading all the cool comments below has taught me that the most ambiguous situation that can arise linguistically, is inadvertently bumping into someone whilst trying to ask directions during a Canadian funeral.

    • agent_flounder@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      If you’re apologizing for something you did, you likely would say either.

      If you’re at a funeral you might say to the survivors of the decedent, “I’m sorry” as in, “I am sorry for your loss”. Whereas saying “I apologize” to them can only mean you believe you’re at fault for the decedent’s passing.

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      8 months ago

      In Canada saying I’m sorry/apologize can’t be taken as an admittance of fault. So may legally vary in place to place, but there isn’t actually a difference.

      • IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
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        8 months ago

        In Canada … ‘I’m sorry’ doesn’t mean much any more …

        Bump somebody in public? … I’m sorry
        Meet someone you know? … I’m sorry
        Meet someone you don’t know? … I’m sorry
        Look at somebody? … I’m sorry
        Stand in line with other people? … I’m sorry
        Someone acknowledge you? … I’m sorry
        Someone asks you to hold this severed body part? … I’m sorry (and hold it anyway)
        Someone asks you for directions? … I’m sorry
        Someone tells you 1+1=2? … I’m sorry
        Someone asks you if you want salmon or steak? … I’m sorry
        Someone asks you which hockey team you like? … I’m sorry
        Someone asks you about the weather? … I’m sorry

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      8 months ago

      They have the same meaning to me. Either one is interchangable with the other, trying to distinguish them is just semantics/splitting hairs IMO.