humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · edit-21 year agoWhy do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can?message-squaremessage-square100fedilinkarrow-up1346arrow-down124
arrow-up1322arrow-down1message-squareWhy do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can?humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · edit-21 year agomessage-square100fedilink
minus-squareSmoogs@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down8·1 year agoUntil they say they are over their head and start complaining they have no free time in a very negative tone to all of their childless/non managerial friends and guilt tripping on how they should do the same. “When are you having kids?”
minus-squareLizardking13@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up10·1 year agoDo childless, non-managerial people have no complaints in life? Most things aren’t perfect. It doesn’t mean they’re not also fulfilling. On the other hand, some people just like to complain. The comment you’re making just lacks some nuance.
Until they say they are over their head and start complaining they have no free time in a very negative tone to all of their childless/non managerial friends and guilt tripping on how they should do the same. “When are you having kids?”
Do childless, non-managerial people have no complaints in life? Most things aren’t perfect. It doesn’t mean they’re not also fulfilling.
On the other hand, some people just like to complain. The comment you’re making just lacks some nuance.
You should talk.
You shouldn’t