• intensely_human@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    It is what it is, is a way to stop discussing alternate realities and start processing this one.

    “If only the doctor had done X and then Cara would still have her left arm and …”

    “It is what it is. Now it’s time to start looking at prosthetics and helping her cope with the loss”