I legitimately find it difficult to long term stay annoyed with people who have wronged me. I have close friends and family telling me how ridiculous it is I’m still in touch and friendly with people I used to consider friends but briefly cut them out after they treated me horribly. I can see the logic and feel as though I SHOULD hate certain people for how they’ve been in the past but I just don’t feel any anger or resentment and am quite happy to just forget the past. Is this weird and/or unhealthy?
I don’t really ever hold grudges, but if someone seriously wrongs me, I would just avoid them from then on. I’ll forgive them easily, at least most of the time, but that doesn’t mean that I have to like them or continue being their friend or hang out with them ever again.