And if you’re not, why do you care so much for what some women might think of you before they get to know you?
Yeah, gosh, why would anyone care so much about being assumed to be a rapist?
you prefer every woman to trust every man because you’re one of the good ones (maybe)?
Weird false dilemma you’ve presented, one can simply treat all strangers with a degree of caution.


Don’t you think bad faith actors will do that regardless? The problem isn’t that the names were bad, the problem is a large amount of people had no interest in learning anything beyond the name and/or actively fought against learning what those groups were actually for.