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  • Many have told me about “their god” and I take their word for it.

    Resultantly I believe in all of “their gods”.

    I’m following so far

    And I drew a conclusion about that guy.

    What do you mean “that guy”. I thought we just established these are multiple guys?

    I think “god” is a piece of shit unworthy of praise and we should seek to destroy and erase it.

    What do you mean “it”? Don’t you mean “them”?

    I hate god and have no respect for god-fearing people and no tolerance for their “beliefs”

    Why are you talking about a singular God here? It reads like you’re blaming Yahweh for Zeus’ sexual behaviour and you’re blaming Hanuman for the Great Flood.

    These aren’t the same character. Each “God” claim needs to be evaluated separately.

    For example why do you hate Persephene so much? Why is she a piece of shit. You claim to believe in her right Your reasons shouldn’t include examples from the Bible.

    Which supernatural make-believe system (read: religion ) is tolerant of my supernatural make-believe system?

    You might find company among the Satanic Temple or other Satanists.

    You said “Buddhism” was ruled out but you didn’t actually clarify so until you present your reasoning I’d say Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism and Jainism all lacking God’s are partially compatible.

    I mean to be fair there’s not going to be a great answer because this isn’t a real question but a gotcha. And I say that as an atheist.

    You obviously don’t actually believe in all the gods, your earlier language shows you haven’t thought enough about what that means and force them all into the same one God.

    The Hittites believed in “all the gods” and absorbed every new God of neighbors they conquered. But they truly believed in these gods, not as a gotcha question but they really believed in the power of these entities.

    Regardless of personal moral views on their behavior, outwardly taunting that being seems silly in light of genuine faith.


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    I think you’re right. We have to make assumptions to answer OPs question on whether she should be uncomfortable in light of so much missing info.

    More information on how the boys feel about this arrangement would be really helpful in alleviating some of my fears, but the post is based exclusively on information from the daughter’s POV so there’s really no choice but trying to fill in the blanks to try to put the answer together.

    I think that OP is intelligent enough to look into her own situation and decide whether my assumptions are applicable or not and discard my comment if the boys are really aware and content about this arrangement.


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    Man I have never felt more out of touch than reading this thread.

    Those poor boys have feelings, they really like this girl, and instead of being upfront with her feelings with them she’s going to take advantage of both of them and their inexperience to force them into such a damaging and toxic relationship.

    It is so fucking hard being in love with your best friend at that age and not wanting to lose the friendship and blaming yourself for your own feelings for the fact that this unhealthy non monogamous relationship is destroying them on the inside but they still care about the person who’s taking advantage of them.

    Do we just not care about what’s going to happen to these young men’s hearts when all the jealousy and resentment comes to roost?

    Or do we not think about it?

    Not believe it’ll happen because we insist this is actually a healthy dynamic?

    There’s nothing wrong with being poly and going out into the poly community to find a relationship where consent is understood.

    It’s another thing to convince your two closest friends to become poly as minors in maybe their first relationships.

    Do they really understand and consent to a thruple, or do they just have feelings for their friend and are told this is how they can shoot their shot?

    What is the thought process on being unable to see the “poor decision”? It seems so obvious. Am I just old and brainwashed by society? This seems wrong in this specific situation. This seems like it will end in pain and heartbreak and the daughter is being selfish and uncaring towards her friends feelings and needs to understand that.

    If she’s poly that’s okay, but this doesn’t seem like the cleanest most consenting poly couple here. This seems like a bunch of kids being idiots about their first attempts at love who could use some gentle guidance on how to treat people in a relationship.


  • Oh sorry. You’re right, you’re allowed to give up.

    I have 100% confidence that you personally had negative experiences in the past trying to get stuff like this working. Like I fully believe you.

    I’ve just done this before you know? I know what these tools are and how easy they are! I use ffmpeg.

    Im also 100% sure that, if you had put that aside the attitude that it would be a time waste and you had just given it an honest try, me or a bunch of different people on this thread would have easily helped you get it working by now.

    Maybe it’d take a couple comments back and forth, but weve already expensed that effort arguing. And I know for a fact it would’ve taken less effort than we’ve spent so far.

    It’s okay for you to give up, but you gotta realize how it feels for us to hear you complain, for us to know with certainty we can help you, and not feel a little frustrated when you refuse the help while continuing to complain.

    Everytime you keep popping up in the thread complaining about this non existent problem it just hurts cause it’s so easily solvable.

    But you’re right, no matter how easy this is I can’t force you to try. So, cheers!



  • I didn’t put the “and” in the commands, I copied and pasted them from the comment above

    Yes you did, but you copy pasted two different commands connected with “and”.

    The word “and” isn’t meant to be typed into the cli. They’re stringing together two different lines.

    but thank you for illustrating my point so very well.

    If your point was that it’s easy to copy and paste I’m confused how I helped.

    It is easy to copy and paste though. People generally format the commands like I did instead of in the middle of a sentence like OP did where you can make parsing mistakes.







  • But times change and the cost of free tier users surpasses that of paying users. Should the company continue providing the same level of service for free tier users?

    “Times changing” here seems to be the central trick to the argument.

    What’s interesting about enshittification is that as the company gets more and more profitable there seems to be more and more excuses as to why these free features are so costly.

    It’s very easy for a company to put out a statement that times are changing and that the free tier is unaffordable. Is that always true? Who’s to say?

    I’m sure sometimes it is true but the doubt is why arguments like this will never go away.

    Also, what other term than entitlement would you use for somebody gets something for free, is not promised that it will stay free forever, the free offering is cancelled or limited, and the user starts complaining?

    What other term than incompetent would you use for a company that puts out a free product, attracts a bunch of free users, abruptly cuts access for those features and puts it behind a paywall, and then acts surprised when those same users complain about it.

    If you want to make a business move go ahead, it’s your right, but accept the complaints from your user base you predictably pissed off.