That is sort of reasonable if they are the ones who want that thing.
On the other hand I’m similarly infuriated when somebody asks me to get them a thing from one of their messy, unorganized cupboards, even if with very specific instructions. Then when I cannot find it they’ll come, open the cupboard and pick the thing out right away and look at me rolling their eyes and/or sighin. And now I should feel bad? Find your own damn stuff in that mess! :D
For ARPGs if you feel burnt by Diablo IV, I can recommend Path of Exile. Arguably the king of the genre today.
Others mentioned Grim Dawn, which has a bit slower gameplay, but a good choice nonetheless.
If you’re looking for indie ARPG, then there’s Chronicon. Nice little game that I really want to go back to again.