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  • unn@lemmy.catoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    2 months ago

    Even if he wasn’t making a move consciously, he was doing it unconciously. That’s why you should communicate and establish expectations/boundaries if you’re in doubt.

    I’m not saying being genuinely nice doesn’t happen. I (male 20s) myself was genuinely nice to a girl who came to me out of nowhere (she wanted to to fuck me probably in retrospective) and took her to home because she walking alone at night in desolated place so I was genuinely worried for her safety. But this was because I used to be very ingenuous. Someone in their 50s definitely hasn’t the same mentality of a clueless 20yo virgin like I was.


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    2 months ago

    The answer is yes. You’re on your peak reproductive age. Of course he would do you. Even if he wanted to “protect” you from predators because he “cares” about you, he would still do you given the opportunity (you’re a gold mine to someone in their 50s). All humans are animals.