• hansolo@lemmy.today
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    1 day ago

    I hate saying it like this, but this kind of thing reminded me: every 5-10 years take a legit amazing, wonderful photo of yourself. A for real glamor shot. Dressed awesome, good lighting, lovely background. Make the effort.

    Not only for your funeral, but if you get killed in a public fascist escalation and every news outlet news needs something to run, give them something beautiful to define your life.

    Now let’s all go have a cry real fast.

  • Two9A@lemmy.world
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    Where’d the real mickey7 go? We can’t have a fake coming in here posting actual memes.

  • TrackinDaKraken@lemmy.world
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    Neither of my parents wanted or had any memorial service when they died. They were both cremated. I have a picture I took of them together about 20 years ago, it sits on a sort-of memorial shelf in my entry hall.

    IDGAF what happens to my body after I die. As the youngest of four kids, I’ll probably outlive all of my siblings. The only person that might give a damn when the time comes is my son. I have no idea where he will be or what he might be doing. ATM, he still lives with me, but I hope to be around for at least another 20 years. He might be on the other side of the world by then.

  • Jay@lemmy.ca
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    I’ve already told my kids I don’t want a funeral, and I hate having pics taken of me but I try to get a few every so often so that they have something to remember me by. I have a few pics of my parents and grandparents when they were alive and it’s nice to be able to see where I came from.

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    Assuming there are people that give enough of a shit to have a funeral for me is too high praised.

  • duffer @lemmy.world
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    Not if you knowingly pose for one. I’ll hold up a banner saying ‘Use this one’.