• brucethemoose@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    I mean. Step back, and its the same either way.

    But I suppose the anguish is on the “liker,” as the undecided is the one who gets to ponder their feelings and decide the fate of the date.

    …So if I was being selfish, I’d want to be the “undecided.” Generous, and I’d want to be the “liker,” so the heartache would be on me instead of my date.

    If I had knowledge of this cosmic situation, I guess I’d be the liker. I don’t want my date to have to sweat while I decide; I want them to have fun. And I’d classify myself as “looser than average,” so I wouldnt mind and just enjoy the time with the attractive person.