20, trying to figure life out . doing trading, learning dispatching, studying too, its a lot at once. feel like im always in grind mode and forgot how to just enjoy stuff. currently im financially dependent on my parents…
had some bad losses in trading lately, took a short break and now trying to actually fix my risk management before going back in
if you’re older and already been through your 20s, what do you wish someone told you back then? like what actually mattered vs what you thought mattered at the time
also anyone here into manifestation/law of attraction, does it actually work for you? not asking to like wish for money lol, more curious how you actually get into a good headspace and stay there day to day
any advice helps, thanks for reading
[like attracting money , travel etc ]
Just work a real job and learn applicable and useful skills, stop trying to be a successful leach. You’re just gambling.
Manifestation is bullshit, there is no magical method for getting life to just hand you whatever you want outside of working for it or getting very lucky, which won’t ever happen twice, anyone telling you otherwise is grifting you. It’s stupid cosmic woo woo nonsense.
Nothing will ever be handed to you, you only get what you work for, which means you have valid reason to value and celebrate your achievements when you reach them. You don’t stay in a good headspace every day, that’s a naive expectation. Shit will suck and shit will be awesome, most of the time shit will be banal, you take it one day at a time and do the work to be the best version of yourself you can manage.
Nobody owes you a fucking thing.