Monogatari series novels and perhaps the anime as well. It really drove home the point that: You (I) am also human so what i observe, excuse, despise in others I will necessarily also contain. And i can chose to seek help, ask for forgiveness, deal with it, heal, forgive and so on not just for other people but importantly also for myself.

Not that I really gained much competence in this matter from this but the thought continues to stick, and it’s demonstrably a good thought.