• BellyPurpledGerbil@sh.itjust.works
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    9 months ago

    My mother told me that she hated me. After a really dumb argument we had, as adults. I still talk to her and play nice in front of our siblings but I haven’t forgiven her and I don’t think I ever will. I lost a lot of love for my mother in a single day and then nothing anyone has said to me since has ever matched or beaten that feeling. How do you trump your own mother hating you? She moved on like she never said it. No apologies. Never mentioned it. You can call me every name and slur and hang me for all my fuckups and oddities, but you can’t hurt me. I’m already at 0 HP emotionally

    • krakenx@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      I don’t think she meant it. She probably said it in the heat of the moment and then forgot she even said it later.