• cybersandwich@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    He reportedly joked that the secret to a long marriage was ensuring your spouse was “someone who is always mildly sedated so she can never realise there are better men out there”

    “In what was always understood as a private conversation James, the Home Secretary tackling spiking, made what was clearly meant to be an ironic joke - for which he apologises,” a spokesperson for Cleverly said in a statement.

    So a self-deprecating, incredible obvious joke, told in private to friends, has people jumping to be offended!

    People really need to save their outrage for serious stuff because being outraged over something like this minimizes actually serious situations. It’s like the boy who cried wolf(read: outrage).

    Edit: is also fairly obvious that most of you just read the headline and popped in to be outraged. Merry Christmas!

    • rowrowrowyourboat@sh.itjust.works
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      11 months ago

      Yeah, this is ridiculous. Imagine living in a world where you are afraid of joking because people will lose their minds.

      Even if his joke was even worse than this, who cares? The people at the party would have thought, “Wow, this guy is lame,” and that would have been enough of a consequence.

      What kind of puritanical, pearl-clutching, and judgemental society are we creating with these outrageous reactions. Get a life people.

      If you wanna hate him, hate him for actual valid reasons. Don’t become a petty gossip-monger.