Each event should be judged on its own merits. They can each have different causes.

That being said, our “isolated western society” which is creating more people disconnected from everyone, likely yields clues to why it seems to be growing.

The wedding thing I think it’s privilege and narcism.

The trauma thing could be a mix, meaning either/or, or a combination. I’m sure someone that was deprived could become an attention seeker.

Society is weird. What is society? Is this an image of what society is based off of mainstream life? Because mainstream life is pretty much 40% of reality (obviously not a fact). So many people are completely unaware of the reality of others. It can be pretty dumbfounding to see “mainstream” culture and how entitled it is. A lot of people are practically unconscious and on autopilot because they were never in a position to become grounded in reality. For example consumerism. Just look at someone that is into brand-name everything. Some people like nice quality things, others literally think those things define who they are because they have no understanding of their self or who they actually are.

It doesn’t even have to be mainstream culture either. Basically any culture people narrow their life into instead of broadening the view of reality of humanity as a whole.

So I guess… Society plays a role in not properly teaching people the broadness of humanity, but at the same time it’s something a human should naturally be able to become aware of by gaining experience and wisdom. Society doesn’t really reward experience or wisdom so it kinda gets put off as something unneeded for survival.

A lot of people, youth particularly, and not just youth in this current time but youth during past times as well, are entitled because they are taught reality is something it really isn’t. Life isn’t a special happy go lucky place like schools put in our heads. There’s so many people out there, grown adults, that would probably buckle and put a bullet in their head if they experienced what some youth experience daily. When the privileged kids see what reality is really like they act out with “entitlement” of what they were falsely promised. Society hid reality from them. They have the right to be pissed off about it, just the same as the people that live the raw reality have the right to be pissed off at the other side. Neither side of youth are to blame for this. Society basically fucks them up and then gets mad at what they’ve created. I always like the metaphor of a person covering a young plant with a bucket and then wondering why it didn’t grow successfully.

I have trouble not seeing it as a spectrum due to all the people I’ve seen the label applied to. I have friends who have been labelled this way but I don’t mind being there for them, even without expectations for the most part, especially if time is all they ask for. I mean, they are my friends.

You’ve come to lemmy to ask a bunch of arm chairs their opinion on actual psychological research and discussion while you’re clearly (to me) upset about something that had actually happened

Therapists will be a far greater resource and I highly recommend you give them a shot if you frequently are finding yourself stuck in “ruts” or extreme emotion. The advice given here (just like Reddit) has no credential, insurance, or laws to prevent anyone from giving you bad advice (and it might not even seem bad at first.)

May none of you forget that AI and quick calculations are very very easy now and pretty powerful. I could see some trolls coming into posts like these with weaponized GPT results to try and get you twisted.

Internet is fine for fun, but for really serious shit, I try to stick with reality. We’re very shortly entering an era where things start to progress faster than ever before - so much so that I question whether or not testing/safety protocols will be able to keep up and the content on the internet will become more dangerous