• Pleonasm@programming.dev
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    1 year ago

    Feels like you’re talking at me, rather than to me.

    Any judgement you’re picking up is the way you’ve chosen to read my comments.

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      1 year ago

      Perhaps you should take a moment to reflect on if your words are callus towards the people who are affected. You can think that I’m talking at you or taking meaning that isn’t there, but you’re on the side of people who arr advocating for risking their safety. It doesn’t matter of you didn’t say it, it matters that you contradicting me and another person who say that person was wrong.

      Context matters, especially ok a platform that doesn’t put focus on users, but words. Your words will add to the context and not be just your words. That is what I’m arguing against. You addition to te context because you are saying that victims should risk themselves based on nothing but where you chose to interject yourself.

      BTW, I didn’t vote one way or another on your posts. Those downvotes came organically.

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        1 year ago

        BTW, I didn’t vote one way or another on your posts. Those downvotes came organically.

        I don’t care if you do or not. We’re not having a popularity contest here.

        You can think that I’m…taking meaning that isn’t there

        I sure do, because you are. Just because I’m saying that it’s important to stand up and fight for your rights does not mean that I’m advocating for this particular guy to put himself in a situation where he might get beaten up or killed, or judging him for not doing so. There’s an enormous range of actions between actively putting yourself in harm’s way and doing nothing at all. And in fact, the only person judging people here…is you.