

I don’t like to think of people as immutably good or bad, but I get what you meant.
There’s a bunch of factors.
- are they honest?
- are they kind?
- do they care about things other than themselves?
- do they try to make the world better?
So, someone who lies, is cruel, doesn’t care about anyone else, and leaves the world a mess is being a pretty bad person.
Someone who just keeps their head down, goes to work, and is polite to people they meet is kind of middling.









My parents are difficult. Not the worst people and not monsters, but at many times unpleasant.
Plus it was a house in the suburbs. Not ideal for socializing or culture.
And lastly, living with parents in the suburbs would be huge negatives for dating.