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  • solsangraal@lemmy.zipEnglish
    61·
    4 天前

    having been on facebook since ~2009 it was undeniably hard to quit, but finally deleting it (not ‘deactivating’) last year was one of the best things i’ve ever done for my mental health

    • Mac@mander.xyzEnglish
      1·
      3 天前

      Browsing Marketplace and chatting with my friends doesn’t really affect my mental health, tbh.

      My point here is to curate your own shit instead of relying on corporate soc-med to do it for you and you’ll be much better off.
      All the political bullshit on Lemmy affects me much more than Facebook ever has. lol

    • Kusimulkku@lemm.eeEnglish
      5·
      4 天前

      What do people do there that is so harmful to their mental health? I just follow what relatives are up to and read the latest hobby/town gossip

      • AnAmericanPotato@programming.devEnglish
        121·
        4 天前

        I honestly don’t know how I could use Facebook that way. Seriously. I log in once in a blue moon, and half the stuff I see scrolling through the main feed has nothing to do with any of my friends as far as I can tell. And that’s with an ad blocker.

        I don’t understand how anybody can stand it. Maybe it’s a “boiling frog” situation, or maybe they’ve developed better counter-strategies than I am familiar with? I quit Facebook about 10 years ago and when I poke my head in now, it’s completely different. It is terrible in ways I wouldn’t have believed 10 years ago.

        • Kusimulkku@lemm.eeEnglish
          2·
          4 天前

          Do you mean it’s ads or something else? I have a few ads too but mostly it’s stuff I’ve followed.

          • AnAmericanPotato@programming.devEnglish
            1·
            2 天前

            Lots of recommendations for groups, recommendations of random people to follow, and things like that. If these are paid ads, they are not clearly presented as such.

            Though I just logged in (first time in a while) and I didn’t see that, so…maybe it changed, or maybe my ad blocker is doing better than it used to? Not sure.

      • solsangraal@lemmy.zipEnglish
        123·
        4 天前

        google “facebook mental health” and you’ll get an idea. if you’re fine using it, that’s great. but not everyone is like you. and the “i’m fine with this–everyone else should be too!” attitude is one thing i saw constantly on facebook.

        edit: notice in my original comment i spoke of my own experience, not anyone else’s, nor what anyone else should spend their time and attention on

      • boonhet@lemm.eeEnglish
        91·
        4 天前

        Originally the criticism was that you see the highlights of other people’s lives and then compare that to your everyday life and that’s depressing.

        Nowadays I think it’s all the politics being injected everywhere. Me? I look for cars and car parts on groups. That’s about it.

        • datavoid@lemmy.mlEnglish
          4·
          4 天前

          Literally all I see are ads, I guess you need friends for it to be addictive or something…

          I really wish my city would get off its collective ass and stop using marketplace.

          • boonhet@lemm.eeEnglish
            4·
            4 天前

            All I see if I scroll is AI slop. Hundred different variations of one theme or another in different groups or pages I’ve never subscribed to.

            I go straight to Marketplace or whatever group I need and that’s it these days.

            • GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.worldEnglish
              2·
              4 天前

              Right? AI-generated pictures of Scarlett Johansen as a flight attendant praising Jesus, or an African kid making sculptures of Jesus out of trash. And all the comments just being ‘Amen’ spam. Bots on top of bots. It’s just fucking dystopian.

        • Joe@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
          51·
          4 天前

          Except my crazy relative (just 1, thank dog) also has telegram and feels the urge to forward every damn whackjob conspiracy theory reinterpretation of truth that they find to me and my wife, despite us never replying except to ask them to stop. eg. Cloud seeding, windmills and electric cars are responsible for destroying the atmosphere (not co2 and other greenhouse gases); Bill Gates etc. are spreading microchips through vaccinations; judges ruling that measles doesn’t exist; Ukraine is full of nazis; and yes, even regurgitated feelgood fairy tales and random cat pictures from Facebook. So glad they are in a country far far away from me. They “do their own research”, of course.

          So bloody sad that so many people are in a similar situation of avoiding friends and family for their own sanity (and sometimes safety).

          • acosmichippo@lemmy.worldEnglish
            4·
            4 天前

            that’s only a small part of it. the bigger issue is that people are just generally assholes on the internet, even your not crazy relatives. so for me the less digital socialization the better. lemmy is the only social media i do now (not having a profit motive helps some), but i have dialed it back like 99% since peak reddit.

  • Bloomcole@lemmy.worldEnglish
    3·
    3 天前

    Best decision ever for a company.
    The US gov pisses away billions of their taxpayers money and buys all the low quality crap from the MIL without questions.

  • flambonkscious@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    10·
    4 天前

    Gosh, they’re burning billions every quarter? Fuck those nerds at meta must be having an absolutely wild time pretending to work on VR…

  • TachyonTele@lemm.eeEnglish
    302·
    4 天前

    They failed making VR, so now they’re a defense contractor for AR. Wonderful.

      • TachyonTele@lemm.eeEnglish
        71·
        4 天前

        Metas failed game(s?) are legendary. Plus, you know, account requirements.

      • GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.worldEnglish
        3·
        4 天前

        I might just be a massive god damn nerd, but I would rather build my own with an old Pixel, a printer, and a Pi. If I can’t be up to my elbows in its guts, from board to code, then it isn’t mine.

  • Cruxifux@feddit.nlEnglish
    26·
    4 天前

    Man fuck that company to death. Fuck them so hard. We need the people to see this for what it is and do something. CEO’s aren’t bulletproof.

  • paraphrand@lemmy.worldEnglish
    16·
    4 天前

    This interview with Palmer Luckey about the news is wild to listen to, if that’s your thing.

    You don’t hear many openly conservative tech billionaires talking like he does.

    • stringere@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      8·
      4 天前

      Autonomous warplanes “that fly missions alongside human pilots”.

      I’m sure they’ll keep the humams involved. No way they’re trying to build a drone army that won’t question orders.

      It’s not hyperbole to say they’re working toward a terrestrial version of Equilibrium. At least, until they can build it in space.