For masculine identifying folks, what were the things you did (or had happen to you) that you feel helped you transition into adulthood and find fulfilling community?
Statistics suggest that a large number of men feel isolated, unvalued by society, and dysfunctional, but it’s not 100%.
Therapy
I’d like to add: therapy with a therapist that gets you. It’s ok (I dare say normal) to swap therapists a few times.
You’re not obligated to listen to a stoic when you are trying to process some trauma.