I kinda didn’t get much love during childhood, so I kinda get obsessed about it. I recently watched Spy x Family and holy hell, I get so jealous of the wholesomeness of their family dynamic, I cried. I need more of that.
Watch Bluey! It’s a kids show, but everyone should watch it.
Bluey is indeed wholesome!
Seconded.
My Neighbor Totoro!
Whispers of the Heart, From Up on Poppy Hill, and Arête also have good child/parent dynamics. Among most other Ghiblis. I just wanted to mention some of their lesser known ones.
the original black and white The Addams Family is extremely wholesome. There’s an absolutely lovely family dynamic and the parents are extremely loving to the children and each other. I highly recommend it!
Came here to say Spy Family, but since you’ve seen that…Schitt’s Creek has a good bit of it, though it is def a slow starter in that regard since it’s kind of all about the mc family being shitheads that learn better over time. Still, lots of sweet familial bonding moments all throughout. It’s also just a stellar cast and series. No complaints from me about it iirc.
Spy Family also has a manga that has been going on quite a bit longer than the anime. I think their chapter count is in the 200s last I checked? So it’s quite far ahead of where the anime left off and is genuinely just as good a read as it is a watch. Maybe even funnier at times with the differences in the way the medium sells comedy compared to animation.
Speaking of comics, there’s a great western one called Black Science all about a family surviving some very unfortunate scifi chaos. Less cozy vibes than the others by a good deal, but that just makes it more satisfying when they do pop up imo.
I’d be surprised if you haven’t seen it already, but Lilo and Stitch has a ton of this. Less parent/child and more inter-sibling, but still very effective and very sweet. One of my favorite animated movies of all time for this and a ton of other reasons.
There’s also the anime Ponyo; a story about a strange aquatic creature that makes friends with a young boy and his family. The visuals on this one are gorgeous to the nth degree. Such a good watch!
Adding a couple anti-picks (the opposite of what you’re asking for) cause they’re on my mind and I have the time lol
anti-pick #1
Berserk. No true family bonding, but the mc connects deeply with his mercenary group in a similar way. It’s nice for a time, but ultimately does not end well. The manga is the best version by far, but the 90s anime team did a great job with what little budget they had. If you choose to watch the anime just know that it only follows the first major arc, and its ending will leave you wanting more. Edit: the author also died before finishing the manga. There are plans for his support staff and understudy to finish it using his original notes, but I haven’t checked in on that in some time now.
anti-pick #2
Lovesick. Specifically the prequel; Dollparts. A girl hates and is hated by her family while learning about hyper violence online and sex via irl context clues, basically. Not for the weak of heart and somehow figures out how to take a grim premise and just keep on making it darker and darker as things go on. The threat of SA is heavily implied and a regular presence, so maybe steer clear if you know you can’t sit with that. While I’m sure it’s a hard sell, it’s also very effective at being what it intends to be and explores some topics that really need talking about, but often aren’t because of how almost universally uncomfortable they are to address. Fascinating and disturbing read. If you’re not sure it’s for you, that means it’s probably not for you.
The Incredibles and Inside Out both portray realistic, flawed, loving family dynamics. As a parent, they’re hard and beautiful to watch.
Star Trek: Deep Space Nine
Except for scenes with Worf or Keiko
Film: Mitchell’s vs the Machines.
TV: The Great North
Sid the Science Kid
Addams family (Movies)
Malcolm in the Middle(dysfunctional, but deep down concern)
The Mummy (movies)
We should setup a watch party thing around some kind of FOSS friendly deal. At a minimum we could watch and discuss for a day+ of open conversation. It might be fun?
PeerTube stream?
since all commenters here are missing out on the best family shows and films i’ll add to the collective knowledge
Astrid Lindgren’s
• Ronja Rövardotter
• Saltkråkan
• Bullerbyn
Tove Johansson’s
• 1972 Mumin
overall swedish cartoons
• Alfons Åberg
• Långa Farbrorn
• Creepschool (highlights and helps alot of trauma and social issues of children in every episodes, i can attest)
but if you want only american… i don’t have a family drama, but a found family feelgood
• 1985 Freaks of Science
ask me for clarifications or so
Hmm… It’s an adoptive family dynamic, but I think you’ll like Anne Shirley. You can watch the recent remake or the original anime depending on preference.
Netflix’s Lost in Space.
You didn’t ask for a video game, but the first piece of media I thought of was, Yakuza Kiwami and Yakuza Kiwami 2. They literally made me cry at some scenes because of how wholesome parts of them are. He kinda adopts a little girl, and starts an orphanage. There’s even a section of the game where you just walk around town holding her hand. Although the game has a lot of mature elements and is not entirely about this.
I can’t really think of many parent/child wholesome media, but Mr Rodgers is something I enjoy watching with my daughter.
Edit, I just remembered, I Love Lucy is pretty wholesome with a parent child relationship
Wrote this in another thread but I love the found family trope and Spy x Family totally fits that bill. I wrote a few other examples below.
Movies
- Logan
- Ice Age
- Wild Robot
- Up
- Despicable Me
Shows
- The Last of Us
- The Mandalorian
- The Witcher
- Daddy Buddy (this one is an anime on Crunchyroll. I highly recommend this if you liked Spy x Family. Revolves around 2 assassins who accidentally wind up with a 4 year old)
I’m hesitant to count The Last of Us as an answer to OPs question. That show is not wholesome at all lol.
Fair. I’d say the bond between Joel and Ellie is wholesome in a world that everything and everyone is out to get them.
Pascal acting as Joel is like achieved by stripping 85% of his emotional range. the character of Joel is like a rock.
when i think father in film i think Mattis from Ronja Rövardotter! i can cry just recounting his lines! that is fatherhood in film
I’d disagree on Pedro Pascal"s performance. I thought he did an excellent job as Joel. He was nominated across multiple awards for that role.
As for the movie/character you mentioned, I had never heard of it but will check it out. I’m assuming you mean the 1984 version which seems to have better audience reviews than the 2024 Netflix TV series adaptation.
yes Pascal’s one of the great actors, the role of Joel is less interesting emotionally however. not much room to shine imo.
yes the original film from 1984 =) lots and lots of theatrical re-enactments since then. now some new cartoons i see
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Loving dad. And what if you suddenly had an identical twin that’s trying to better you and helps you get out of your shell?
