I have social anxiety and never been in a relationship and find it very difficult as an average looking dude to meet women. I get bad anxiety when trying to approach a girl I like or find attractive so avoid it. I’m still working on myself so I know that needs to come first. Just looking to see what others did to find a girlfriend with similar difficulties.
By joining meetup groups you have an interest in, but don’t start hitting on people right away. Get to know people in the group before seeing if they have friends who are available.