Depends on how realistic your expectations are for yourself.
If your comparison is aspirational, identifying places where others succeed so you can figure out how to adopt their methods yourself, it can be quite beneficial.
If you’re not adopting an active-improvement mindset, and you’re essentially just dick-measuring, then yeah you’re eventually gonna be miserable. There’s always a bigger dick.
Jup. Also if you have self worth problems, looking at people around you with a realistic sense of their personality and skill can help to think “I can’t be that much worse”.
Depends on how realistic your expectations are for yourself.
If your comparison is aspirational, identifying places where others succeed so you can figure out how to adopt their methods yourself, it can be quite beneficial.
If you’re not adopting an active-improvement mindset, and you’re essentially just dick-measuring, then yeah you’re eventually gonna be miserable. There’s always a bigger dick.
Jup. Also if you have self worth problems, looking at people around you with a realistic sense of their personality and skill can help to think “I can’t be that much worse”.