Edit: ‘Chase’ in this phrase is not meant to be taken literally.
For some extra information on the quote: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassionate-feminism/202504/the-psychology-of-dont-chase-attract
Edit: ‘Chase’ in this phrase is not meant to be taken literally.
For some extra information on the quote: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassionate-feminism/202504/the-psychology-of-dont-chase-attract
…persue/chase em… nobody will know your interested in them unless you make some effort to show that interest, humans can’t read minds.
so approach with light flirting, presumably around whatever attracted you to them in the first place. then ask out to neutral/low-commitment social event, like a concert or something.