Legally? Probably not, at least not in most liberal democracies.
Ethically / Emotionally? It depends on how predictable the outcome was.
Was this a highly unexpected outcome that no one would have predicted based on what you were doing? Then its probably not your fault at all.
Were you engaged in conduct that everyone knew would result in this outcome? Then yeah, you made this decision with this in mind and its a cost you were prepared to pay.
I think an important consideration is whether or not your family is ideologically aligned with your actions. Did you do something that they agree with and support or are you doing something that they disagree with in the first place?
Legally? Probably not, at least not in most liberal democracies.
Ethically / Emotionally? It depends on how predictable the outcome was.
Was this a highly unexpected outcome that no one would have predicted based on what you were doing? Then its probably not your fault at all.
Were you engaged in conduct that everyone knew would result in this outcome? Then yeah, you made this decision with this in mind and its a cost you were prepared to pay.
I think an important consideration is whether or not your family is ideologically aligned with your actions. Did you do something that they agree with and support or are you doing something that they disagree with in the first place?