I am not religious and have no desire to start being now but sometimes I just want the community people get with church. I am craving connection with the community and feel it’s very healthy for families and neighbors as well. The United States is seriously lacking in third spaces and communities. It’s leading to a serious loneliness epidemic… Just wondering if there is anything that can fill that need for non-religious folks?
Are you rural? In small to mid size cities the churches usually host socials not related to practice of their religion. Such as dances and pot lucks. Might be worth checking out the church calenders as a start. Churches are surprisingly social even for the un faithful. If its the right place. Sure you can face some annoying people but if faith is keeping you back from a visit on non worshiping day or event you can still connect with them for community.
E: have you tried church’s for non religious gatherings? Its a thing.