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      May as well go on the dark web and add your personal info to the latest database dump from whatever hackers. Will be funny once the credit reporting agencies get all the identity theft fraud from the leaked data. Of course, they’ve been breached themselves probably more than some gamer chat forum because their security is a joke. It’s like at this point, the only reason not to post your personal info is so you don’t get swatted when you make a comment someone doesn’t like about Nicki Minaj or some other asshole.

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        There’s loads of other reasons to be anonymous online too.

        Mostly for your own physical safety. Also none of this crap is about protecting kids. Middle aged wine-moms need to parent their stupid kids instead of letting the family iPad be the caretaker. Pornstars aren’t at fault if little timmy sees a pair of tits or a vagina, that would be the kid’s parents who are at fault

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      As an old: You kids and your TeamSpeak … back in my day Ventrilo, and we were happy to have it! (uphill both ways or something about my lawn).

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          This is the part where my mom would mention party lines.

          In some rural areas there was something like not every house had a unique phone number, but as a side effect you could just pick up the phone and talk to all the people on that same party line at once.

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              Squatting on a party-line to play WoW is just a wild pairing of technological eras to me. If we go by the invention date of the former they’re more than a century apart (1878).

              Also: rude!

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            Yeah back on the days of analogue telephone lines every phone number ultimately required 2 copper wires going all the way from the nearest local exchange to the telephone handset in the home or business, so many smaller towns and rural areas got party lines as a way to save on copper and switching costs. Instead of a dedicated pair of copper wires to every house with a phone, all of the houses on a given block were on one line (all on one electrical circuit), so you’d pick up the phone and be able to talk to (or listen to) your other neighbors without dialing.

            Edit to add: in some rural areas they’d even use the barbed wire fences already at farms as a wire for delivering telephone service instead of running new phone lines, sometimes even using Single Wire Earth Return to further reduce copper requirements

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          I’m that old too!

          But that’s way before I started real online gaming, where Vent was during the peak of my online gaming days.

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        back in my day Ventrilo

        Ahh “Vent.” My biggest memory there is people trolling with the sign-on TTS.

        “My ROFLCOPTER GOES SOI SOI SOI SOI SOI SOI SOI…”

        Anybody remember the brief flash in the pan that was “X-fire”? Haha

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          Back in the day my college had very strict filtering on the WiFi. I learned how to use SSH tunneling through PuTTY to bypass the firewall to connect to X-Fire. I was so 1337.

          I can still hear the ripping jeans sound effect

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            YES!!

            When I stall and forget what the heck I was saying, thanks to this video I’ll sometimes just go “…uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh…AEIOU…”

            Probably about how I’d react to having to fix a component on a moon base too. XD

            “Snake? SNAKE? Saaaaaaake 🍶…”

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    My discord account is old enough to buy alcohol but yet they think I’m 13 because I play Minecraft to much while discord is open.

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        It’s not about your age though, it’s about getting your information, that’s the entire problem. Don’t let them tell you otherwise, they and the government are getting and keeping this information no matter what they tell you.

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    Matrix + Element.

    It’s open source, decentralized (federated), supports voice/video, roles, persistent rooms, and you can self-host if you want full control. It’s basically the only thing that feels like a real discord replacement without being locked into one company’s servers.

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      I installed this yesterday and couldn’t find one room related to video games that had any chat messages in the past few years. I put a message in anyway, but not optimistic.

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        i like how light it is, but its just not sufficient for a 5 person DnD/gaming group like mine.

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            no no, i mean not sufficient in the way that cant handle voice and video calls with a stable connection between multiple people.

            we wanted a discord alternative that allowed us most or all of the features of discord for our DnD campaigns and streaming to one another. it just wasnt stable for more than two or three people. let alone five lol.

            not dissing it though, light tools always have their place. its just difficult enough trying to explain to a passive group of 30+ year olds that discord is the devil and we need to own the means of communication without offering a smooth(ish) transition process with similar quality and features.

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              Oooh!

              If it wasn’t closed-source I’d actually recommend Teamspeak for that use case. Elsewise, of the ones I’ve known personally the stablest would be Mumble, but the problem is the clients.

              It’s also important to recall that if we want to look for alternatives we have to be very willing to look for stuff that’s not Discord 1:1 because otherwise what would be the point. Plus, it’s unfair of us to ask full equivalence from hobbyist developers to match what a corporation that is selling our data to ensure cash flow can do.

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    Yes! I’m joining “the young people”!

    What do we do nowadays? Are we still tubular?

    I think it’ll be neato.

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    I stood my ground on not using this useless software for like 10 years. If there was no in-game chat or voice I just didn’t, but almost all games where that is necessary have it.

    How validated I feel as it crumples.

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      i made an acct last week because my lesbian game night group decided to start a ToR clan. none of us are going to age verify, so i guess we’re going to get a new app. if i can convince them.

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    Meanwhile, I have a 16-year-old son who plays Roblox a decent amount, they do facial scanning and then put you in groups based on their assessment. Or at least that is my understanding. Dude just turned 16 this week, but they put him in the over 21 category. Granted he does have a full beard and has a ridiculously deep voice, but he did at 14 just like I did. I’m not worried about him gaming with older people though, he doesn’t really want to leave the house so he’s not going to get raped by some predator, plus the 21+ crowd is generally more mature. And whatever they have to say, he’s probably already heard it anyway. And I dare a predator to come here lol. They’d never find him.

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      Granted he does have a full beard and has a ridiculously deep voice

      Reminds me of my high school buddy that had a beard / deep voice, and looked just like his older brother. He would use his brother’s old drivers license to buy beer and smokes for us.

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    Wouldn’t mind being a teenager again. Ok, maybe not these days, but in general.

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    You can already pretend to be a kid in a room with other kids on discord! There’s a HUGE CSAM problem on it.