I love cooking, but because my mom is too much of a bimbo and my dad too much of a “manly man” to ever step into the kitchen, I never had the chance to learn from them. I grew up on delivery, takeout, eating out, and the incredible food made by the amazing woman who cooks for our family. I became deeply interested in cooking at the start of my teenage years and taught myself through the internet, books, that same woman, and other relatives.
In order to learn how to cook, you must first learn how to cook.
No, you’ll probably fuck up plenty starting out (I did), but that’s OK, just do your best to follow the steps and you’ll get the hang of it. Fucking up can be a valuable learning experience.
There’s lots of videos out there that can help, but if you know someone who can cook, that can be a big help!
Cook badly until one day you don’t.
I don’t think I have that much perseverance. I’m super grateful for cookbooks with easy-to-follow recipes - I’m pretty sure I would have starved under the fail-until-you-figure-it-out approach.
Absolutely nothing wrong with using cook books and recipes, especially when you’re starting out.