I recommend continuing to learn skills, trying new things, volunteering, etc. Parents seem supportive so that’s great. Just be able to support yourself independently because nothing is guaranteed. Especially how people will treat you as you get older.

I mostly wanted a job where I make decent money, and have a solid work-life balance.

I work on fire alarm systems.

Nothing wrong with wanting to be a housewife.

Also, most people find their career ambition later into adulthood. Not sure your age but allow yourself the freedom to have different wants in the future.

Yes. Look around you.

I’ve never had any dream job or aspirations on getting to a high level. I sort of ended up being a truck driver, then I sort of accidentally started my own car mechanic business, I got enough of that and returned to truck driving.

I love history, I read all the time. I’ve been writing a history book, mostly for my own enjoyment. If I finish it, I’ll probably print a small amount of it and force them on my friends and family.

I don’t think its important to have career targets or goals but I do feel like its important to do something. If you have the means and finances to just hang out and learn stuff on your own, thats great. But with that freedom comes the risk of sort of closing yourself out of the world. Having a job or a hobby that gets you out of the house will keep that from happening.

Such unconditional support, while truly wonderful on it’s own, comes with the risk of limiting your perspectives and experiences on what the world and people are like.

With that said, I am 37 yrs young and I never once thought “I wanna be X/Y/Z” while growing up. I just studied what appealed to me (Japanese language) and took any and all jobs that I could find, completely unrelated to Japanese, since the language on it’s own doesn’t really open any venues. Now I’m a parole office wtf xD

My mum says she still does not know what she want to be when she grows up. She is now a retiree.

As a person who has two kids and does a lot of playing and house work, if that’s what you love then do it. But fuck, I prefer the cubicle.

My kids are great, but everything is so repetitive and mandatory. Laundry HAS to get done. Shopping. Cleaning. Cooking. Even when you’re sick because your partner has their responsibilities too. You don’t get a lot of autonomy.

It’s a lot.

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“Discover What You Are Best At” by Linda Gail. A series of self tests assess your skills and a list of jobs that use your skills.

It pointed me at a career I’d never even considered.

I always thought that I just hated working, I found out that having the right job makes all the difference.

You didn’t write your age, but I assume you’re around 18 from your username and the description. I’m in my late twenties, and working as a software developer. It took me most of my twenties of just trying different things, and studying on and off, before I figured out what direction to go in career wise. It’s worked out well for me in the end, but I am completely open to changing my mind and changing course later, in case I no longer like it, or I wanna do something else. Like you, no particular career really had a strong appeal to me when I was a teenager. That’s fine. I don’t think it matters a great deal what, specifically, you do at the start of adulthood. What matters is that you do something. Whether that’s pursuing a degree, or working some random job, or trying to start your own business, or traveling to do volunteer work, etc. If you wanna be a housewife, I’m sure you’ll find a partner you can do that with eventually. But until then, I think you’d be denying yourself of a lot of personal growth by not taking on some form of full time occupation (once you’re done with school, of course). Basically, you’ll figure out the specifics as you go along, and you’ll probably find out what career appeals you to when you’ve tried a few types of jobs.

You want to be a housewife but not depend on a man? How does that work?

I think most people feel that way.

Keep taking care of your parents and keep learning until such time as you can understand published scientific articles and get mad at journalists that purposefly misinterpret said articles for profit.

At that point you could probably write and publish a paper yourself. I’m sure many researchers wish they had parents like yours.

Thankfully, I have my family’s unconditional support

Bruh how rich is your family? How many yachts you got?

Kidding

But like yea I get asked a lot “what do you wanna be when you grow up”… and like… I can’t remember how I even answered it…

At one point, I wanna be a game designer…

Then I want a small shop to fix electronics…

Then I wanted to be a programmer or something in IT…

Now I’m a puddle of depression 🫠

I’m financially dependent…

I think I’m just gonna learn how they run their bussiness… and stuff… and take over…

Hopefully I don’t get disowned and cut off lol

I wanna be a writer…

Having their assets would be a huge help since I’d have financial stability and have time to actually do any writing…

(Sorry for the rambling… perhaps I’m not fit to be a writer at all lmao…)