I don’t mean banter or just shooting the shit. but discussions or talking with friends about things in your life, or theirs… ya know, showing an interest in someone’s life because they matter to you or them having an interest in your life because you matter to them?
Oh lmao
Never had real friends…
I mean other than those “school friends” that you never hang out outside of school…
Ha! Friends…
Yesterday. As a matter of fact quite often, I’ve found wonderful people to have deep conversations about our projects for our lives, about politics, science… you name it. And of all places, in VR Chat. It’s the new third place, a forum to gather without the economical pressure of consuming.
Being freeware helps, I like to join bar maps and just talk to randos sometimes but right now it’s all about the Fish! map. It’s basically VR Webfishing.
Uh, I wouldn’t call anyone my friend if I can’t or don’t talk to them about that stuff.
Last Wednesday. We regularly go out to a local pub for trivia night and converse face to face there.
Over the weekend.
Almost Everyday and I have a super small circle.
Every time I see them, in this case a little over a week ago.
In the summer when we see each other more at least weekly.
In the winter it is a lot more hibernating and activities of daily living so less frequently.
When is the last time you had actual
conversations withfriends?I gave up on that a long time ago because as it turned out the answer to the modified question was never.
If you count spouses, this morning, if not then sometime around 2000.
Over the weekend.
I don’t see small talk or whatever as a sign of a lack of interest in someone. Sometimes there’s nothing that deep going on to talk about.
Me and my friends frequently discuss how we feel about our lives, jobs, our futures and what our plans are. The last time was yesterday.
If you count spouses, about an hour ago. If not, the last time was on Sunday. We were talking about my friend’s journey to becoming a commercial pilot, and my other friend’s small business. This was in-between turns playing D&D.
Yesterday but my closest friend lives in my house lol. I’d be fucked without him around. The friend group I had basically imploded in my mid 30’s.
