Yes, thank you so much. I totally wanted and have time for a scavenger hunt + jigsaw puzzle. Clearly you understand enough of the issue to know that I need to handle it but can’t be bothered to spend 45 seconds to summarize the relevant bits.
Reply back: several questions, see my reply in red and ask one question
Bonus “Mildly infuriating”:
Ask 4 bullet-point questions in an email, they only answer one of them and ignore the rest.
And it’s always your third bulletpoint so you know they know there were multiple questions and they just ignored the rest!
Either the 3rd one or the least important one. Whichever causes me the most inconvenience.
nowadays I just let whatever the issue is sit in the queue until it comes back around
“yep, that’s waiting on so-and-so. see here, I asked for this necessary information two weeks ago, still haven’t got a response. you might want to check with their manager about why they’re holding up this project”
That’s when you reply and fixate on completely the wrong part of the thread. Teach them for not setting the right context.
honestly I feel the same about people just putting links or media into a post. I get it. Its me. I come here for communication. I want to know at the very least why you felt something was important enough to post. Why did they like it. Why I should like it. Does it have meaning to them. Is it just a laugh. etc. I kinda wish I could block all posts that did not have about as much body as you have up there.
Valid. I hate link only posts. Especially when the link is to a video with clear clickbait titles. I tend to just keep scrolling. I would love a setting to block posts that are only a link and no details.
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A few times, people have just forwarded an email thread to me, without ever typing any words into it, not even, “see thread”. Straight into the bin go those threads. So f*ing lazy!
Reply: “yep, that’s a chain.”
I can’t tell if people who do that kind of thing are lazy and malicious, actually stupid, or stressed beyond their capacity to be decent.
I do think a lot of people are actually only semi literate, and asking them to write is legitimately difficult and embarrassing for them.
Wrong community. I think that there’s an actually infuriating one somewhere.
i am so fucking thankful that i have never used email for any kind of work
I have a filter that checks for “Fwd:” and immediately trashes it. If you cant be bothered to format even the subject line, you’re a lost cause. Cut down significantly on useless shit from my parents especially.
I have like 150 other filters that sort messages into folders, trash others, and immediately permanently delete others. My inbox now has 1-5 messages in the morning, and usually 1 or 2 throughout the day, vs the like 25-50 daily. Having unique email addresses for each recipient is great too, since if you unsubscibe from some garbage and it doesn’t actually unsubscibe (fuck you, AT&T Business), you can just blackhole it and it’s gone.
I prefer email to texting or calling, since there’s less expectation of a rapid response, but I got tired of getting so much garbage all the time - and I was already actively trying to keep my inbox clean 15+ years ago.
Sounds like a senior engineer at a company I had to communicate with on the daily. I was supposed to report tech issues and problems directly to him, since they refused to assign my area any actual techs and instead gave the regional. I swear if you used any term that seemed to imply the request would be difficult or time consuming the email would be marked as read, then marked as deleted with no reply. Then when a followup was requested “I never got anything”. There was a few times higher ups would get pissy at me for an issue not being resolved, I would just show them my outlook that clearly showed the “email deleted” tag on the email indicating that it was read, and then trashed again and they would go complain to their managers about it.
Just don’t read it. Delete and move on.
I know don’t like it, but this is a perfect use case for AI.
how is AI going to know the relevant part of the chain?
The same way it knows anything, by looking at all of the tokens.
are you taking the piss or do you actually think that’s a good answer?
