Decided to take the initiative with my crush. I asked him if he wanted to come over tonight so I could give him a massage and we could talk about us. He was very enthusiastic and said he wouldn’t miss it. Now I have to go buy massage oil after class because this was kind of a heat-of-the-moment idea…
Now, you might think I’m dumb or clueless, but I’ve only had one boyfriend in my life (from sophomore to senior year of high school), and he took the lead from the very beginning. So this whole approach is a first for me. Very excited for tonight.
I’m gonna be so for real as a guy who never had a girlfriend until he was like 20, you can write everything off as just ‘them being friendly’ to the bitter end. It isn’t a case of being oblivious, but just because until I hear it, I think everyone is just putting up with me because my ego is so bruised.
I get it now being older, fatter, and gayer now, but it can be hard to believe people can just like me.
Is he like that? I dunno because I’m not him, but you might have to just be straightforward with him. State your intentions clearly with him and let him know what you want. That’s the safest bet…
…except it isn’t lol. A ton of people were that with me and guess what? My wounded ego told me they were just putting up with me too. We live in a society.
I hope I made some kind of sense to you. I tend to ramble even in text.