Decided to take the initiative with my crush. I asked him if he wanted to come over tonight so I could give him a massage and we could talk about us. He was very enthusiastic and said he wouldn’t miss it. Now I have to go buy massage oil after class because this was kind of a heat-of-the-moment idea…

Now, you might think I’m dumb or clueless, but I’ve only had one boyfriend in my life (from sophomore to senior year of high school), and he took the lead from the very beginning. So this whole approach is a first for me. Very excited for tonight.

  • unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de
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    1 month ago

    He is probably like 99% sure you are into him but might still be scared to risk your relationship over this 1% chance of you just being nice. If he doesnt initiate anything after that just tell him you also want a massage and be proactive from that point on…

    Always use this video as a baseline for how stupid guys are: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR_9Yw