Decided to take the initiative with my crush. I asked him if he wanted to come over tonight so I could give him a massage and we could talk about us. He was very enthusiastic and said he wouldn’t miss it. Now I have to go buy massage oil after class because this was kind of a heat-of-the-moment idea…

Now, you might think I’m dumb or clueless, but I’ve only had one boyfriend in my life (from sophomore to senior year of high school), and he took the lead from the very beginning. So this whole approach is a first for me. Very excited for tonight.

  • tigermountain@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Can I ask you a question? When I hear the word “crush” I think that you have someone you like but they either don’t reciprocate or don’t know you like them? Is that the case here or have you gone out with this person before on a date where there was clearly a romantic interest from both of you?