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minus-squareHalfSalesman@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down1·7 hours agoWhat if I would, but I don’t like their advice? I’ve had 3 friends tell me I should get on anti-depressants. I will not. My therapist hasn’t suggested I take anti-depressants. And she has seen me when I was extremely sad. And I don’t want to get fat. Or go through reduced libido more than I am already expecting too on HRT.
minus-squareLovable Sidekick@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·edit-25 hours ago What if I would, but I don’t like their advice? If you only do what they advise when it’s what you would have done anyway, that’s not taking advice, it’s just hearing confirmation. The idea is not to let people’s negativity mean anything to you unless their positivity does.
What if I would, but I don’t like their advice?
I’ve had 3 friends tell me I should get on anti-depressants. I will not.
My therapist hasn’t suggested I take anti-depressants. And she has seen me when I was extremely sad. And I don’t want to get fat.
Or go through reduced libido more than I am already expecting too on HRT.
If you only do what they advise when it’s what you would have done anyway, that’s not taking advice, it’s just hearing confirmation. The idea is not to let people’s negativity mean anything to you unless their positivity does.