Moment of clarity? Embarrassed? Lost control of an antagonistic agenda?

  • ABetterTomorrow@sh.itjust.works
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    11 hours ago

    I agree but I have a curve ball question.

    When you come to the point, why not edit the post/comment to “I don’t agree with my original post/comment” or “I step away corrected”. Another take about information: “I have come to a realization that I was wrong and find someone’s comment [insert link] or this is the correct info [insert correct info is source link]”.

    I ask this because I do the same as you but would this be a example of progression for ourselves and others? Is that a culture to have or do we naturally do that on our own paths?

    • Tyrq@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      9 hours ago

      Fair question, I guess it just depends on how I feel that day and whether or not it’s even worth engaging with even myself about it rather than expunge the dumb thought from existance. I don’t necessarily forget it, but the feels linger if I leave it hanging, and I only get so much time on this planet.

      I guess it’s just easier to delete it and move on with my life and the next time I come across the thought I approach it differently for everyone’s sake.

      I like to think I’m okay with being wrong, but just like every interaction, it goes smoother if I don’t need to backtrack and regain the trust of my interlocutor. Mulling on it myself instead of with someone I’ve already pissed off is probably more productive. I guess that’s also part of the learning curve.

      • ABetterTomorrow@sh.itjust.works
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        1 hour ago

        These rang true to me.

        I guess it’s just easier to delete it and move on

        I like to think I’m okay with being wrong

        Thank you for sharing!

        This is what comes to mind for me every time I do so. Lately I’ve just feel obligated to try to do something different, like what I asked to you. Maybe it could be a way to not do bad comments at least.