It seems like most of them are into femdom or have some really strange fetishes. Are there really so few guys among them who just want to fuck a woman well? Lol
It seems like most of them are into femdom or have some really strange fetishes. Are there really so few guys among them who just want to fuck a woman well? Lol
idk about the overlap with incel culture, but any amount of time in online kink spaces should make it obvious that there is a massive explosion of submissive men seeking partners and not nearly enough dominant women to meet demand.
it’s not really representative of overall demographics, basically survivorship bias at work.
and there are a massive amount of dom men seeking submissive women who can’t find them either.
because men want sex more than women are and are far less picky about who they will have sex with. kink has nothing to do with it.
There are a lot of men who claim they are doms without doing the work. I can’t tell you how many times I indulged in talking with men like that who had no idea about kink or rules or power dynamics, none of it. They just wanted to be able to put their hand around my neck while fucking me.
I’m a switch and heavily involved in kink play. Those “doms” are laughable most of the time.
A submissive should never, ever play with a dom that can’t respect boundaries or doesn’t understand that submissives are in control of the scene ultimately.
I’m sorry but that’s just a gross assumption. There’s also a power dynamic here that greatly influences things. Women don’t want to risk getting sexually assaulted or worse because they said no to someone with the emotional maturity of a child.
(Not into men myself, but am woman)