• friend_of_satan@lemmy.world
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    Find ways to enjoy life that don’t involve spending money. Libraries, little free libraries, enjoying nature, writing, minimalism, meditation, stoicism. Be vigilant and resist spending money, see it as giving the finger to the corporate overlords. Make an effort to get off the hedonic treadmill.

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    We’re in the bad place, the only way to not go insane or cry constantly in heartache is extensive use of compartmentalization. That is, you have to selectively and temporarily ignore certain things at times so that you can continue to function. Then later, make time to consider those things you had to set aside.

  • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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    Combination of picturing what could be better and staring into the distance and slowly developing into a “hand of death clutching at your heart” panic attack

    That and D&D

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      Literally a tool of capitalism

      From the article:

      As it turns out, what we consider a “coffee break” in the United States is actually explicitly tied to a 1955 court case, the United States vs. Phil Greinetz of Los Wigwam Weavers.

      Greinetz owned the Denver tie factory Los Wigwam Weavers and, after World War II, struggled to find staff up for the surprisingly arduous task of tie making. To encourage productivity, he introduced mandatory coffee breaks so that workers would have the energy to make it through their shifts fully alert. One problem, though. Like bad bosses throughout history, Greinetz didn’t want to pay his employees for the time he demanded they spend drinking coffee. Eventually, the U.S. Department of Labor became involved, with the court ultimately deciding, in a rare win for the working person, that employers had to cover coffee breaks since the business was positively affected by employees being jacked up on caffeine.

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          Haha. That’d kill me. I’ve never been a coffee drinker. No hate on coffee, I’ve just never enjoyed it.

          Edit: stupid autocorrect

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    Prioritize. What’s important to you? Put that first.

    Personally, I would LOVE to travel. I don’t have that option because my wife works a gig where she can’t get time off.

    So the idea of taking a week and going to Hawaii or Vegas, or New Orleans? Not going to happen.

    So I take the money I would spend on stuff like that and invest it locally in making our lives better.

    Bought a house in 2021, got out from under $1,800/mo. rent. Traded it for a $2,000/mo. mortgage, but you know what? I looked up our old place… $2,300/mo. now. House across the street is a rental, $2,600/mo.

    As time goes on, our mortgage is going to get cheaper and cheaper.

    Owning a house means more projects. Some of the plumbing needed to be re-done, the electrical panel needed an upgrade from 100A to 200A, the roof was 20 years old with a 20 year lifespan, swapped for a 50 year roof that will outlive me, the house has a 3rd patio which couldn’t be used because there was no cover, so we added a retractible awning, solar panels, just got a hot tub.

    And, yeah, consumer capitalism, but these are infrastructure investments that improve our lives and add value.

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      Watch out this is Lemmy, people want to just blindly complain about capitalism, and seeing someone succeeding will make them angry.

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        They can get angry all they want, my spine health deserves a hot tub and the hourly rental shop was $70 before it shut down for covid. :(

        At $70 a pop, this tub will have paid for itself after 194 sessions. 2 times a week for 2 years?

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      if something is important to you and you don’t do it then it wasn’t really that important to you.

      most people don’t understand that the dream is often more important than the reality of the thing.

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        Portland is getting expensive too, we got super lucky on a 3 bedroom, 1 bath for $390 in 2021. 3.25% 30 year fixed.

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    Hmm. Hobbies? Something that isn’t part of the daily grind? Maybe take part in the capitalism for a while, save some money to move somewhere else? I heard there isn’t much at least in the USA in between ultra capitalism and a cabin in the woods. But there might be somewhere else… Maybe a nice hacienda in Andalusia?

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    Don’t subscribe to the hive speak. Get quality essentials and buy based on your own thoughts, expectations and experience, not what people say. Influencers are a plague.