• rustyfish@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Ability to wear adorable clothes

    I already do that. No reason for transitioning.

    Fuck social norms.

    Fuck the police.

    And fuck you.

    aggressively flings fluffy scarf over the shoulder

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      I never understood how people get so stuck in-denial, I mean ask yourself, is there really something so wrong with being a girl. Really what is so bad abut that to you that you’ll intentionally and repeatedly deny who you are to yourself? I wish you luck sis and I hope you can come out to yourself and be happy one day.

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          This person is clearly in-denial, I’m not saying they should or shouldn’t be anything, it’s just obvious they aren’t entirely cis if you catch my drift.

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              Don’t compare cracking someone’s egg to conversion therapy, they are not the same, cracking people’s eggs saves lives, it frees them from denial and allows them to be happy as their authentic self. Conversion therapy tries to force people deeper into denial. This is such a rotten and transphobic argument.

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                right its so much different when its your opinion you are attempting to bend people to instead of one you disagree with

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                  Conversion therapy is transphobia, transphobia isn’t an opinion, calling transphobia an opinion is like calling arsenic a flavor. I’m not trying to bend anyone to anything, I’m just pointing out that they’re dressing like a girl, and acting like a girl, put two and two together and you can see where that’s going. Is this really that hard for people to understand?

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                    “You are what I say you are, not what you say you are” - thats what you’re going with, surprising take.

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                You are not the arbiter of who is or is not trans. You are free to help someone come to the realization that they may be trans, but do not invalidate their identity in the process.

                Gender expression is a spectrum, and just because someone isn’t 100% gender conforming doesn’t automatically make them trans.

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                  It is not invalidating their identity it is helping discover who they really are, helping them come out of the egg and break the denial that prevents them from being their most legitimate selves.

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                    It is not invalidating their identity it is helping discover who they really are

                    Literally indistinguishable from transphobe rhetoric.

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            You keep trying to push a narrative, but it just isn’t working.

            Nobody is falling for your crap.

            I’d ask you to go back to Reddit, but Lemmy has this neat feature to block trolls.