I am of the age to have kids, some of my friends have them, but I have mixed feelings about it, just wondering about other people’s experiences.

  • Soulifix@kbin.melroy.org
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    5 days ago

    My golden rule of thumb goes by this ruling, if I can barely take care of myself and barely get by. There’s absolutely no way or chance I’ve got in caring for someone else like a child.

    If I can’t stand the sight, scent, hearing and other things of other people’s children. There’s not a guarantee that I’ll see my child any different.

    • Captain Poofter@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      Some mom’s out there with kids the neighborhood raises will be all: “have them anyways, you’ll make it work!”